分類: Relationships

總是會失望，永遠無法在他人身上獲得毫無瑕疵的滿足，而他人同樣無法在我身上獲得百分之百的滿足。

There is always disappointment. One can never attain flawless satisfaction from others, just as others can never be fully satisfied by me.

只能在自己身上獲得沒有任何折扣的滿足。

True, undiluted satisfaction can only be found within oneself.

認知到這點，自然會放下對他人的期待。不再期待他人滿足自己的期待。於是心結便開了，他人帶來的滿足感隨之上升。

Once this is understood, expectations of others naturally fall away. I no longer expect others to fulfill my expectations. As a result, the knots in my heart begin to loosen, and the satisfaction others bring starts to increase.

不再追求「滿分」，只要「有分」即是幸福。

I no longer chase a “perfect score”; as long as there’s some score, that is happiness.

像是自欺欺人的論點，但確實能帶來一直以來嚮往的幸福感。

It may sound like self-deception, but it truly brings the sense of happiness I’ve long yearned for.