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一本好書《我是你的觀護人》A Good Book — I Am Your Probation Officer

因為聽到報導者這集節目才知道了這位觀護人,才知道了什麼是觀護人以及這職業的工作內容是什麼。

It was through a podcast episode that I first learned about probation officers—and for the first time, began to understand what this profession actually entails.

很喜歡唐珮玲觀護人講話的口氣和方式,非常引人入勝。對她的好奇讓我買了她幾年前的著作,想知道更多關於觀護人與受保護管束人的故事。

I was immediately drawn to the tone and way Tang Pei-Ling, the probation officer interviewed, spoke. She was compelling and quietly powerful. My curiosity about her led me to pick up a book she wrote a few years ago, wanting to know more about both her and the people under her care.

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變動 Change

如今誰都會認知到目前是個充滿變動的時代,但要「承認」這個事實卻有心理上的障礙。

These days, everyone acknowledges that we’re living in a time of constant change—but truly accepting that reality comes with a psychological hurdle.

為什麼會有這種體會?因為我職場上的主管,民國4年級生,生活在政治相較單純、經濟起飛的年代,那時累積的經驗都是有用的,因為日子過得慢且都很相仿,明日是昨日的累積。

Why does it feel this way? I think of my boss at work, someone born in the 1950s, who grew up during a period of relative political stability and economic boom. Back then, the knowledge and experience one accumulated were useful for a long time, because life moved slowly and predictably. Tomorrow was simply an extension of yesterday.

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三十 My Thirties

今年三月是我35歲生日,這些文字是送給30至35歲的自己,也是給35歲之後的自己的祝福。

This March marks the month of my 35th birthday. These short articles are written for the me between 30 and 35 years old, as well as a greeting to the version of me after turning 35.

週遭仍一片黑
心卻有了亮光
因你而起
遠離哀傷 自憐
各自安好
愛原是溫暖 踏實
因你而知

Even though darkness still surrounds,
My heart has found a gentle glow.
It rises because of you—
Sorrow and self-pity fall away,
Each of us at peace in our own space.
For love is warmth, strong and sure—
And this I know, because of you.

  1. 〈三十〉
  2. 〈back and forth〉
  3. 〈稀釋〉
  4. 〈白〉
  5. 〈軟〉
  6. 〈a new song〉
  7. 〈蛹〉
  8. 〈彼得潘〉
  9. 〈端看〉
  10. 〈過眼〉
  11. 〈get better〉
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偽大人 The Esteemed Adult

怕丟臉的你、總是指著別人鼻頭批評的你,每當被觸及無防備之處便著急得惱羞成怒,漲紅臉的你,總算看起來像個人了。

You, who are so afraid of embarrassment. You, who always point fingers and criticize others. Yet the moment someone touches a vulnerable spot, you fly into a rage, face flushed with anger. For once, you actually look human.

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小日子 Slow Days

謝謝先生在男性生理期情緒低潮時做了這麼豐盛的晚餐,牛排好好吃😋

也謝謝先生只要生理期低潮時都會跟我說,我這次會記下來發生的時間,之後會慢慢統計出趨勢的,我便會在低潮期來臨前更體貼一點。

Thank you to my husband for preparing such a wonderful dinner during his hormonal low—those steaks were absolutely delicious. And thank you for always telling me when you’re feeling this way. This time, I’ll make a note of it. Over time, I’ll track the patterns, so that next time, I can be even more considerate before the low mood sets in.

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